On Rose Marie Drive in Titusville (circa the Space Race) all
the kids in my neighborhood played sandlot ball: kick, base, stick. The big
kids always got to bat. The little kids always got gypped until they got to be
big kids.
The fights were real. The solutions were up to us. The rules
were of our own making. Parents were not involved until and unless there was
blood or a death.
And then the grownups invented Little League.
Before the leagues—soccer, basketball, softball, football,
baseball . . . before the teams—swim, cheer, track . . . before the grownups,
children were free. They were free to work out their problems, organize their
activities, and experiment with the complexities of inter-personal batting
line-ups.
And then grownups invented uniforms.
A lot of kids didn’t own gloves. They played bare-handed or
they switched off with the opposite team. We learned to share if we wanted to
play. The “field” was an empty lot in the subdivision. We used chunks of
construction drywall for bases. We learned to be innovative.
And then grownups discovered regulation: gloves, bats,
balls, fields.
In sandlot ball one person owned the equipment, usually the
kid that just had a birthday. And there was always the possibility that
birthday kid would get ticked off, take his/her ball or bat, and go home. Negotiations
and conflicts constantly teetered on the razor edge of collapse. We became
master diplomats.
And then grownups created ALL the rules.
Nothing about sandlot ball is fair. Nothing. The big strong
ones got to pitch, bat, and field. The little ones got stuck sitting on a
cement block hoping for mercy from the big and the strong. It made us hungry to
get better, bigger, stronger, more. It gave us a clear vision of how the world
worked—get scrappy or take a seat. Winning mattered.
And then grownups took up a collection so that everyone
would get a pointless, meaningless trophy.
I attended my granddaughter’s softball game yesterday. It
was organized, orderly, and sanitized. Adults umpired, coached, and cheered.
Little girls shrieked and stomped encouragement at each other. It was fun.
But it wasn’t sandlot ball.
Linda (Last Up) Zern
